Thursday, December 31, 2009

The Law of Consistency and How to Overcome It- Change Your Identity to Achieve Success

The most difficult thing in the world for people to change is their identity because it’s who they believe they are. The law of consistency states that we have a natural tendency to remain consistent with who we think we are. Think about it this way. When you program your identity to be overweight, consciously you may want to lose weight, but subconsciously you’ve programmed your mind to believe you’re an overweight person. Your subconscious mind is so much more powerful than your conscious mind so it does everything it can to keep you consistent with the identity you set for yourself. Now this not only applies to your weight or personality, it also applies to your lifestyle and success!

What you want to concentrate on is changing your vision and belief about yourself. Without changing your beliefs you will never begin to achieve the success that is well within your potential. One way you can start changing these beliefs is by simply speaking the words, “I am going to be successful. I am going to change my life. I will achieve my dreams.” By speaking words like, “This is never going to happen for me. I will never be successful. I will never achieve my goals” you make yourself believe it’s true. Because you have an identity of being unsuccessful, OF COURSE, you’re going to have these subconscious tendencies to believe it.

You need to concentrate on changing your vision and beliefs about yourself. Every time you start to think or say something negative about yourself just flip it around. Don’t get discouraged. You may often find yourself resorting back to your old beliefs. But, keep in mind your identity over years and years of subconscious programming is not going to change overnight. Focus on overriding any negative beliefs with positive ones.

Start declaring to yourself what you want, what you are striving for. Avoid declaring what you are currently experiencing and shoot for what you really want out of life. Before you can reach your goals, you must first believe you are the type of person who can achieve them. You won’t become a millionaire until you declare to yourself that you can become one. One thing you must realize is that you do not gain confidence in yourself after you have success. You gain confidence in yourself BEFORE you ever achieve success. Belief is that leap of faith that takes you to where you really want to be.
Take a look at what you want to improve in your life and look at how you created your identity through your thoughts and actions. In order to change you must first become conscious of your negative thoughts and take every step necessary to flip them around.

Starting right now, I want you to start declaring what you want out of life. Start declaring wealth, start declaring health, start declaring love, start declaring happiness and build an identity that allows you to become the person you want to be. NEVER SETTLE FOR MEDIOCRITY! The reason average people are average people is because they walk around their entire lives being miserable. They say things like, “If I can just pay my rent this month I will be happy or If I can just find something that satisfies me that will be enough.” You have to shoot for the stars. You have to tell remind every day that you will succeed. Remember, you can never have and then be, you must first be before you can have. When my friend explained this to me for the first time he followed it up by saying, “You will never live life beyond your wildest expectations until you first have some wild expectations.” He is RIGHT!

I’ll leave you with a trick to help you gradually change your identity. LIE. The power of a lie is extremely effective when engaging the subconscious. Your subconscious does not know the difference between what is truth and what is a lie. It just does its best to carry out what you have programmed it to believe. When you set beliefs and identities for yourself your conscious mind may call you out instantly and tell you that you are crazy, but your subconscious, which is MUCH more powerful, will believe what you say and do all it can to make it a reality. You must do everything you can to fill your subconscious with positive identities, beliefs and motivation. Without this you will never be able to take off and achieve what you deserve.

“Watch your thoughts, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your character. Watch your character for it will become your destiny.”- Frank Outlaw



If you are ready for a life-style make over and are willing to take the steps toward CHANGE then visit my website. Here you will find several options you can pursue to capitalize on the tremendous potential offered by the internet. We will take you through it step by step and show you just how easy it is to make TONS of money and CHANGE your life. We are providing a COMPLIMENTARY, money making eBook to our next 100 customers so check out our site today. You will also be able to sign up for our newsletter which will keep you up to date with advice, new articles, keys to success and discounts on future products. You have NOTHING to lose and EVERYTHING to gain.


Best of Luck,


Eric
Buy it Below, CEO
http://www.buyitbelow.com

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

The #1 Reason Your Internet Business is Not Working the Way You Planned

You will not have success using the internet without the right mindset. So the question becomes do you have the right mindset to become profitable? Do you feel YOU are destined for greatness? Do you feel that it will all work out in the end? Do you feel its YOUR turn to cash in? If you find yourself answering no to these questions than you might as well STOP now because your efforts are useless without these beliefs.

Do you feel that if you give enough towards a dream, it will come true?

Do you feel that if you invest time and money into your business then you will get what you want?

Are you ready for change?

If you can answer YES to these questions than your internet success will be limitless. Over the past few years I have really gotten a sense for the qualities needed to succeed in internet marketing. I have also gotten a sense for identifying which personal qualities of mine can be most utilized to achieve success. One of my most important qualities is that I BELIEVE in the businesses I launch and in the companies I invest with. The most important quality within EVERY successful entrepreneur is a positive mindset. A positive mindset that no matter what adversities you face, YOU WILL ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS.

The hardest part of starting, managing or transforming a successful business is the courage to possess this mindset. The success stories you hear about online or in books did not come about by sitting around and contemplating where to start. They also did not come about through 15 hour work days and tremendous amounts of commitment. In order to be successful you need a PLAN or an IDEA and you need to implement this plan in a SMART way.

Work SMART. Not HARD. If you ask any successful internet marketer that is what they will tell you. They will also tell you a few other words of wisdom such as:

"The squeaky wheel gets the grease."- In other words, make sure you become a squeaky wheel. Ask as many questions as you can and find out as much as you can from others. Contacts and connections, co workers, friends, family, employers, strangers. They are all pools of knowledge that you need to soak up.

"You have to risk it for the biscuit."

Come up with a game plan and stick to it. Divide your profit up before hand and decide how much you will reinvest and how much you will keep for yourself. The more success you have, the more you'll believe you can achieve. Until you start succeeding, you'll have nothing but your own desire to power you toward your goal. Keeping that passion burning yourself can be difficult, so surround yourself with successful people, even if they aren't chasing after the same goals that you are.

If you want to achieve any goal, your first step is to declare it. Take 100% responsibility for creating it and then clear out all the words like "hopefully," "can't," and "TRY." Words like "try" are signs that you have no faith and you're using your own potential success against yourself. DON'T BECOME A "TRY-BABY!"

Without the ability to dream you will never accomplish your goals. You need to dream BIG. Dreams define who we are. Successful people dream about success. Most people dream big then settle for something less because they feel more comfortable going after the lesser dream. For example, instead of dreaming about having the financial freedom to live anywhere in the world, most people dream about making their rent for the next month. Believe it or not, it just takes a little more effort to achieve a big dream than it does to achieve a small one. Don't forget about your dreams and don't accept the small, more realistic dreams that surround you every day. When you lose your dream, you have nothing to live for. One famous quote that I will always remember is "Most men die at age 25 and are buried at 65."

What is your plan for change this year? Are you going to keep living the same way or are you going to take CONTROL of your life and your career and start living the way you deserve. Do you want to make more money than you have ever dreamed? Do you want to travel the world? Do you just want more time to spend with your family? Do you want to fall in love? Well you need a DRAMATIC CHANGE and now is the best time to start!


If you are ready for a life-style make over and are willing to take the steps toward CHANGE then visit my website. Here you will find several options you can pursue to capitalize on the tremendous potential offered by the internet. We will take you through it step by step and show you just how easy it is to make TONS of money and CHANGE your life. You will even be able to sign up for our newsletter which will keep you up to date with advice, new articles, keys to success and discounts on future products. You have NOTHING to lose and EVERYTHING to gain.


Eric
Buy it Below, CEO
http://www.buyitbelow.com